376. Why “Having It All” Is a Trap and What Women Really Need Instead with Alanna Kaivalya

What if success isn’t what makes you powerful but the freedom to finally feel satisfied?

 

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I’m joined by Alanna Kaivalya, Ph.D., spiritual teacher and author of The Way of the Satisfied Woman: Reclaiming Feminine Power. 

 

Alanna shares her perspective on why today’s women are burned out, emotionally depleted, and carrying an invisible weight of expectations. We talk about the lies women are sold in marriage, motherhood, and the workplace and how to begin untangling from them so you can live on your terms. This episode is a must-listen for any woman ready to soften, heal, and reclaim her power.

 

Resources Mentioned:

• Alanna’s book: https://www.thesatisfiedwoman.com/book 

• Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Alanna-Kaivalya/author/B00GU54W3A?ref=sr_ntt_srch_lnk_8&qid=1730677121&sr=1-8&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=true

• Alanna’s Starter Kit: https://www.thesatisfiedwoman.com/empowerme

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• Cured Nutrition use code AMBER for 15% off: https://www.curednutrition.com/

 

What We Discuss:

• Alanna’s story and why her message is so timely for divorced moms

• The number one myth women are sold in marriage

• What patriarchy gets wrong about feminine energy

• Why the supermom narrative is destroying women’s health

• Navigating masculine vs. feminine energy after divorce

• Redefining success through the lens of satisfaction

• How to tell if you’re operating from the masculine

• Practical ways to reconnect with your feminine energy

• Boundaries, self-care, and the power of saying “no”

 

Key Takeaways:

“We’ve been taught to man up to survive, but our real strength is in softening.” – Alanna Kaivalya

“Saying no is one of the most radical things a woman can do.” – Alanna Kaivalya

 

Find more from Alanna Kaivalya:

Website: https://www.thesatisfiedwoman.com/ 

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheSatisfiedWoman 

Blog: https://www.thesatisfiedwoman.com/blog 

Podcast: https://www.thesatisfiedwoman.com/podcasts/the-satisfied-woman

Find more from Amber:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com 

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@msambershaw