446. “Am I Even Helping My Clients?” Here’s How to Tell

Have you ever walked away from a coaching session wondering if you actually helped…or if you just had a “nice conversation”?

 

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I’m breaking down one of the most common fears I hear from new (and even experienced) coaches: How do I know if my coaching is actually working? We’re moving out of fear and into evidence, and I’m sharing practical, real-life ways to recognize client progress without overcomplicating it or turning coaching into a data-tracking nightmare.

 

Resources Mentioned:

• Register to #CoachU, a FREE bootcamp for divorced moms who want to lead coaching sessions with confidence, clarity, and structure without guessing, freezing, or overstepping: https://products.ambershaw.com/coachu-organic-jan2026

 

What I Discuss:

• 02:57 Why so many coaches secretly fear they’re not actually helping their clients
• 03:51 How to tell if your coaching is working (without overthinking it or needing a spreadsheet)
• 05:43 The three subtle but powerful shifts that signal real client transformation
• 09:19 Simple ways to track progress that don’t turn coaching into therapy or data collection
• 11:39 Why awareness alone can be a massive win for your clients

 

Find more from Amber Shaw:

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Website: ambershaw.com