The Wellness Revolution Podcast with Amber Shaw

350: The #1 Missing Piece in Your Post-Divorce Dating Life with Christine Hassler

February 6, 2025

Are you stuck in ‘pick me’ energy after divorce?

In this episode of The Wellness Revolution Podcast, I sit down with relationship expert Christine Hassler to explore what it truly means to embody “queen energy” in love and relationships after divorce.

Christine shares her powerful journey from anxious attachment to true self-acceptance, and explains why being a successful, independent woman doesn’t mean you have to settle for a “beta” man. She breaks down the crucial difference between feminine energy and “doing energy,” revealing how our nervous systems impact our dating patterns more than we realize.

From understanding attachment styles to learning how to be a muse instead of a mom to your partner, this conversation offers a fresh perspective on attracting aligned love without losing your power.

Resources Mentioned:

Sign up for the Love Magnet, a FREE 3-day workshop to stop settling and doubting and attract epic soulmate love: https://christinehassler.com/amber

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What We Discuss:

The truth about being “too successful” to find love

Why strong women don’t need beta men

How to stop coaching your dates

Understanding nervous system patterns in dating

The real meaning of feminine energy

Key Takeaways:

“Your success isn’t the problem – your nervous system patterns are.”

“You don’t have to choose between being powerful and being loved.”